Ugly Girl Problems
This post stems from one of my good friends ‘Champagne’ that is an avid follower of this blog. It talks about girls who “don’t just look like a slightly better version of Precious” that “deal with repeated non-sense from men”. It is usually due to not thinking they can do any better or they just aren’t sure of their full potential.
Champagne is a really beautiful girl that has admitted [but still doesn't quite believe] that she is worth the best and still doesn’t know “whats the best she can do” in terms of guys. To me, the best is different for everyone. My personal best is a guy that makes me happy, makes me laugh, supports me, and can tolerate my mood swings. The things that are probably best for her seem to more deal with stability and dedication and really following through with what they say. Guys dealing with her need to know that she has dealt too much with guys that don’t realize her value and often want to leave her on deck while there is another batter that may get a home run or strike out. The home run will finish the game, which will be great for the guy. On the other hand, the strike out may give her the chance to bat, or it may just end the inning and she’ll never get her chance.
Champagne is finally at the point where she knows that it’s not okay for a guy to just leave her hanging, but she’s still not sure on what type of guy to wait for or with which guy to continue dealing. According to her, today is the day that she will no longer have Ugly Girl Problemsand finally start moving on when a guy presents BS. Good luck Champange! It is now written in my blog to mark this date, June 2, 2010.