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ooo la L.A. May 27, 2008

Filed under: Personal — Jasmine @ 10:52 am

So I went to Los Angeles this weekend.  I had a really good time.  I got to see my buddy from school.  We talked about life and our experiences and got to know each other better.

I drove up there Friday after work.  I ate some food, chilled for a second and went to take a nap.  I was knocked out and then woke up so we could go out and party.  It was this nice club and had a lot of fun.

Saturday, he told me of his co-worker’s graduation party.  However, he took a minute to tell me that it was formal attire.  Of course, I had not brought any.  You know what that means… shopping!  So this was my first LA shopping experience so I was preparing for overpriced-for-no-reason clothes.  However, I was pleasantly surprised that the prices weren’t too bad.  I got this baaad dress, these baaad shoes, a necklace, and some earrings to complete.  My contacts were killing me!  So I had to take them out and go blind for a little bit.  oh yeah, earlier we met his friend from back in the day at this yummy Jamaican restaurant and i smashed all my food!

The graduation party was really nice.  Formal attire was indeed required.  A lot of little kids were having their junior and senior proms there too.  He had a nice catered dinner (steak and potatoes) with an open bar.  There were a couple presentations from his family and friends followed by a champagne toast and some Hispanic dancing.  mucho fun time, but my feet were killing me from breaking it down at the club.

Sunday, we woke up really early for church and my friend led a song in the choir.  It was really good, well his part was, the other guys were a lil nervous.  We went to the fellowship hall where they were serving breakfast (grits, eggs, chicken, and rolls).  This old guy kept trying to hit on me.  He offered me money to buy myself a breakfast (not knowing that I was going to Roscoe’s Chicken and Waffles soon after).  I declined the money.  The cook brought out some remaining wing dings and the guy got one and presented it to me.  It was really funny.  He was like 50 years old.  He kept looking hard at my friend and ended up telling him to ‘take care of [me]‘ as he held the door for us on the way out.  I chose to not tell him that our friendship isn’t like that hoping he would leave me alone.  Then, like I said, we went to Roscoe’s and it was soooo good.  Of course I caught the -itis and with lack of sleep, took a nap.  We went back out to look for a jacket for me and got this catfish po boy from this yummy creole place.  I couldn’t finish it all.  That thing was huge and I wasn’t extremely hungry.  Plus, as I got to the last third of the sandwich, all of the creole spices were taking over and I couldn’t eat anymore.  So I just watched the rest of the Lakers game as they got smashed upon.

Then, we watched this African documentary named War Dance.  It was really good!  Next, we got dressed to go to this house party in Beverly Hills.  The plus-sized man from Superbad was there just chilling.  It was like a high school reunion party.  Lots of drinking and plenty bottles of Belvadere just laying around.  I didn’t really have a good time there because I didn’t know anyone, but that was fine.  The house was beautiful too.

Monday, Memorial day was real chill.  We slept in then got dressed to go to Reggefest on the campus of UCLA.  The weather was kinda in between cold and hot so I went to buy a hoodie from Crenshaw mall.  Not much to tell about the festival.  It was $35 to get it, which was crazy!!  There was a lot of smoking.  I ran into Bobby Brown.  Other than that, Mr. Vegas and Stephen Marley (Bob’s son) performed.  We left there and hit up In ‘n Out and then I hit the road.

long story short about the ride home: I was about 20min away from being home and this cop made everybody turn off the highway.  I got lost, it was dark, really scary.  Finally found my way back to the freeway.  About a 45 minute detour.  Got home, went to bed.

I’m going to get some work today :-/  I met another intern this morning, he looks like me :-)   I’m going to lunch with my mentor.

 
 

the work race May 22, 2008

Filed under: Work — Jasmine @ 9:36 am
So, I thought this one would be better, well at least different, but it’s really all the same.  I have started work and it begins just like all the other internships.  Me asking myself ’self, can I really do this for 3 whole months?’  It seems like so long, but from past experience, it’s over before I realize it.  The thing that always gets me through is meeting people that look like me (under 25 and of color).  I’m definitely not racist, but it’s just something about the bond that we have with each other that makes the experience so much better.  Pardon me as I bring in my (most expensive at the university) engineering mind.  I will mix that with an American Culture class that I had.  One segment was on discrimination.  It talked about how it is not always the whites discriminating, but the minorities sticking together and not wanting to mix with the whites.  Being one of the few minorities in the class, I could definitely relate.  We never discussed the ‘real’, ‘educational’, ‘psycological’ reason why that happened, but just talked about the connection from history, childhood, and present experiences.
 
I’m still wondering why there is no one that looks like me, that works with me.  Is it really the lack of drive or tenacity, or is it the lack of opportunity.  Whatever the reason, please pop up or come in with the next wave of interns next week!
 
 

The first of 90 May 20, 2008

Filed under: Work — Jasmine @ 12:32 am

Got here yesterday morning around 10am. After waiting like an hour in 90 degree weather for the shuttle, I finally got to place of living(HT). They couldn’t find my name. Put me up in this one place. Then found ‘my name’ spelled wrong and moved all of my stuff. There was one casualty to the move. My bright pink nail polish broke and spilled all over my nice white shoes :( It made me really sad because I had to force pairs of shoes into my suitcase so I could have either left those and had more room or just brought some different shoes! but I digress.

Today was pretty cool. Woke up at 5:30 this morning, but I slept A LOT all day yesterday and my body is still on Eastern time. So it was kinda 8:30am. Caught the shuttle there. That was cool, met Ed or Ted? of the front desk.

Had hours and hours of orientation. I’m so glad that I wasn’t sleepy today. There, I met my new buddy(NB). Went to lunch in the caf. More training, got my badge, then had a tour.

Came home from work, went to the grocery store with NB. Got some breakfast food, cereal, ramen, you know all the basic food groups.

Then, we met with NB’s friend. He was really cool. Went to In ‘n Out Burger for the first time ever. It was really good and I don’t even like fast food too much.

Now back in the room chillin. About to get ready for bed soon. Catching up with friends over the phone.

 
 

Silent Treatment…really? s-h-h-h-h-stupid! May 13, 2008

Filed under: Anythang — Jasmine @ 3:09 pm

So, who really thought this was a good idea? I think I have 2 people giving me the silent treatment. One admitted, and one still in question.

Technology has made things like this a lot more confusing. The two people are both in a location about 40min from me. So I haven’t got an in-person silent treatment, but neither answers the phone, returns calls, returns texts, or returns facebook messages. Initially, I’m just thinking that they are busy working or taking class or whatever. So I really wasn’t trippin at all.

oooo…until the phone call happened. Person #1 calls and admits to the ST because they needed some time to separate from me emotionally. What? I’m like well we could have discussed your issues a long time ago and been over it by now. I leave in a week and we could be hanging and having fun, but you need to distance yourself… whack.

Now this leads me to believe that Person #2 is doing the same thing. not really sure, but if so, that’s not smart and really un-bossed (the negative form of bossy)

Following the steps of the link:

1. I’m not being paranoid, it was admitted.

2. Okay, things did happen that day.

3. I didn’t rehearse because I wasn’t expecting it.

4. I don’t apologize easily.

5. I did that! go me. I do value the friendship

6. I did that too. Because avoiding the problem didn’t help

7. Didn’t do that, but I’m leaving town. So I should be busy a lot.

8. Did that, but I was cooking too.

9. my hand doesn’t reach. lol

 
 

Letting the grass grow May 5, 2008

Filed under: Personal — Jasmine @ 12:35 am

So I went to church today to see one of my best friends dance. Her church is really big and I just felt kind of out of place. It just wasn’t for me. I think I need to find one of those places where everybody knows your name, but large enough where they aren’t all in your business.

My life feels so idle right now. I’m just chilling with the parents, taking random naps, playing factory installed games on my computer. Just really lax. My friend’s mom made a reference to my lifestyle that “You don’t let any grass grow under you” meaning I’m always running around. But, I guess this is what I really need. A chance to bond with my parents on an adult level and some time to clear my head.

I need something to do with my life, somewhere to go. We’ll see how long I last trapped in the house.